Free Divorce Resources
Rebuilders is committed to helping EVERYONE, regardless of their financial situation.
Divorce is incredibly difficult and overwhelming for most people. Listed below are links to anything and everything we have found that might help you move through this difficult period in your life.
Step 1: FREE Training
FREE Online Program
The Rebuilding Foundations program gets you started during a very difficult time.
Essentials Tools, Community, and Coaching TODAY!
In this program you get a huge number of tools and information you can use today to start feeling better. You get a few eCourse to help you. You can join our private community of over 500 people to get support. And you get some personal coaching with an expert divorce coach.
This program is worth over $438 and you can get it for free. No credit card required!
Step 2: The Divorce Adjustment Self-Test (FREE)
How are YOU?
If you are looking for relief or understanding there is no better place to start than to take the Fisher Divorce Adjustment Self-Test.
Step 3: Listen and Learn
Books
Rebuilders is committed to helping EVERYONE, regardless of their financial situation. Divorce is incredibly difficult and overwhelming for most people. Listed below are links to anything and everything we have found that might help you move through this difficult period in your life.
Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends by Bruce Fisher
This is the #1 Divorce Recovery Book and is the textbook we use in our courses. Not every chapter is great but by far it is the single best book on the topic of divorce. This book is so popular that you can often find it at your local library.
If you can't get it at the library, you can get it here for about $12.
Broken Open By Elizabeth Lesser
This inspiring guide to healing and growth illuminates the richness and potential of every life, even in the face of loss and adversity. In this book Elizabeth is able to put into words what most of us struggle to understand in our own heads.
If you can't get it at the library, you can get it here in print, audio, or kindle for $8 to $30.
Hold Me Tight By Sue Johnson
“Seven conversations for a lifetime of love”. This book is focused on how to have healthy, supportive relationships. It is recommended for people that are trying to save their marriage. For the rest, it may seem that for many on this page the material no longer applies. However, for many they are trying to understand what happened and why. This book, above ALL others, will help you understand. It will give you peace about what happened and help you understand how to enter into the next relationship confident that you know better on what works, and what doesn’t.
If you can't get it at the library, you can get it here in print, audio, or kindle for $8 to $30.
Videos
The Rebuilders YouTube Channel
- There are a lot of YouTube videos out there on various topics. But no other channel has the depth of knowledge, understanding, and wide variety of topics. We are a little biased. 🙂
Ted Talks
- TedTalks have a HUGE list of topics related to divorce. These are by experts in various fields. The only downside is that the material isn’t cohesive. You can spend days watching these videos.
Audio (Books/Podcasts)
Audiobook: Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends by Bruce Fisher
- This is the #1 Divorce Recovery Book and is the textbook we use in our courses. It is available on Audible (from Amazon). Not every chapter is great but by far it is the single best book on the topic of divorce.
Audio Book: Broken Open by Elizabeth Lesser
- This inspiring guide to healing and growth illuminates the richness and potential of every life, even in the face of loss and adversity. It is really well read by the narrator.
Audiobook: Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson
“Seven conversations for a lifetime of love”. This book is focused on how to have healthy, supportive relationships. It may seem that for many on this page the material no longer applies. However, for many they are trying to understand what happened and why. This book, above ALL others, will help you understand. It will give you peace about what happened and help you understand how to enter into the next relationship confident that you know better on what works, and what doesn’t.
The audio version of this is good. It is a heavy book to read. Having someone else read it is great but you will probably need to listen to it a few times to really get it.
Podcast List
Listen to our podcast here:
Support Groups
The Rebuilders Support Group
- We offer a huge library, weekly sessions, and a long history of supporting people going through divorce.
DivorceCare
- DivorceCare is a Christian based support group that can be found in many churches. Most are not free but they are usually very inexpensive. The upside of the DivorceCare is that you can meet people in your area going through the same situation as you. The downside is that the program makes you feel bad for getting divorced. It also encourages you to turn to Jesus for your support. We embrace all religious choices but we find that people don’t recover without doing the work themselves, ON themselves.
